When you feel confident about one of your views, be suspicious. Confidence comes when we cannot imagine our view being false given our experience.
That can arise because our evidence is just that good. Or it can happen because our imaginations are just that bad.
If we have something at stake in the issue (money, status, reputation, comfort, safety, love), and we find ourselves feeling confident about our position, it’s wise to suspect an impaired imagination.
When we have a dog in the fight, we are built to squint in just the right way so we can’t see what we don’t want to see.
We restrict the evidence we collect so we don’t accidentally find something that undermines our view.
We restrict our imaginations so we don’t accidentally see another way to explain our experience.
And we restrict the perspectives from which we try to view the facts, so we don’t accidentally feel a sympathy we don’t want to feel.
Don’t worry. It’s not just you. I’m sure you’ve noticed that other people do this too
P.S.
I guess this suggests a trigger training technique: When you feel confident — especially in a discussion with others over a controversial subject, ask yourself these 4 questions:
Do I have a dog in the fight?
If so, Am I restricting 1) the evidence I’m considering, 2) my attempts to imagine alternative explanations of my experience, 3) the range of perspectives from which I view the subject.
And, it’s only fair, once you’ve done that, to ask that question of the others in the discussion as well.